7 reasons you should start a family after marriage

Family is very important and children are not for the keeping of just anyone. Having children is for those passionate for lifestyle. Having the tools to survive is essential. We see babies and think oh how cute. We also see the mommies and daddies and tired looks on their faces. Being a parent is like trying ro break the internet lol! Slowly getting it. One step at a time is all you need. But what if you have a fast learner? Can you catch up with their speed. My son has ADHD but it's just normal to me. I'm hyper too! Staying active is a good way to engage with your child.

1. You and your spouse can benefit from

routine Starting a family is important to those whom are married and are ready can benefit from routine. Our little rugrats sure do keep us on our toes. They hardly sleep. I bet when they are sleeping they are thinking about having fun. Everyday is fun for kids. I try to teach my children everyday isn't fun to save them the disappointment when mommy want to sleep in a bit. My kids trained me to be the best I can be.

2. You'll be surrounded by love and hugs!

Someone to cuddle under you and say those beautiful words "I Love You" is enough to make my heart melt. Snuggling is rewarding especially when it comes from your little one. Watch some cartoons and a bowl of cereal and spent quality time with you kiddo.

3. To have someone to bong to

The third is "union" having something feel apart of "family" give them courage and raise them to be a force. When I say a force I don't mean in a harmful way more like a movement. They represent you and all your hard work you have done to make them the little beems of sunlight they truly are.

4. Make memories for your little ones.

It's fun to make memories that last a lifetime. I love taking pictures of my babies and sending to all my family. I admire the creativity we create together. We all have different ideas and opinions that come together for a picture perfect moment.

I started on my first scrap book when I moved to Nashville. It has pics from when I lived in Memphis until now. I can't wait to put it all together and see it years from now.

5. Enjoy those happy moments

Take a moment to embrace every part of life with completion. Celebrate everyday that you did something and are doing something so important that might be challenging to others. Impacting a life is inspiring. Being a parent is beneficial in ways we overlook. It definitely takes pure dedication and humility to get the job done properly. We have to sometimes look at it as one of our many goals.

6. Moral Support from within

Let's talk about moral support. Kids give us moral support because we give them moral support. Whatever you pour into so it shall be returned unto you. That is why it is so important to let them see and hear positively. We often hear the word support and thinks of money but support comes in the form of volunteering as well.

7. Validation from within

Last but not least number seven finally is validation. You are validated and assigned to the child once you sign your child's birth certificate. They are now apart if your family tree of brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. You have now created a tribe. Now it's time for your assignment.

We want to embrace the joys of family orientation. Spread the love from one another and one family to another.

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1.Routine (keep you going!)

2. Love (snuggle buddy/hero

3. Union (being apart of someone

4. Memories (creating momentum)

5. Embrace life (celebrating life)

6. Moral Support (Support from within)

7. Validation (to be accepted from your family)